One of the common myths surrounding AIDS/ HIV is that, once diagnosed, you must give up any chance of meeting your special someone. But with the right precautions and a lot of honesty, people living with AIDS/ HIV can date, have sexual relationships, and find that special someone to share their life. Maybe the hardest thing you will have to do is disclose your AIDS/ HIV status.
AIDS/ HIV Disclosure
AIDS/ HIV disclosure can be easier if you arm yourself with the right tools and know the right things to say at the right time. These guidelines can help when it's time for disclosure.
Explain to your potential partner that you care and trust enough to disclose your status.
Assure him or her that it is possible to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship despite AIDS/ HIV.
Always discuss safer sex and the importance of having safer sex every time.
Explain that a sexual relationship is both possible and enjoyable with the proper precautions.
Important Note! - Disclosing your AIDS/ HIV status to prospective sexual partners is the law in many states and failure to disclose can result in criminal actions against you.
When Should You Disclose?
There's no perfect time to disclose your status, but there are choices to be made regarding when to tell. Disclosure must always occur prior to any sexual contact. But what if the relationship hasn't gotten to that phase? There are a couple schools of thought regarding when to disclose. While there is no perfect time, there is a time that suit you best.
Kiss and Tell - those who opt for "kiss and tell" will go on a few dates before disclosing their status. The advantages of this is that for one, it allows you to wait and see if the relationship is going to get serious before disclosing. If the relationship doesn't work, your status was not disclosed needlessly. People who kiss and tell perceive this option is best because it limits the number of people who become aware of their AIDS/ HIV diagnosis. Important Note! - disclosure must occur before any sexual contact can be made.
Tell and Kiss - there are some people who opt for "tell and kiss," meaning that HIV disclosure occurs very early in the relationship, in some cases on the first date. One reason for early revelation is there is less emotional attachment at that point. It is a fact that some people will not be ready to date an AIDS/ HIV-infected person. Some people feel that it is better to be rejected early as opposed to later when an emotional connection has occurred. Moreover, early disclosure implies honesty. Waiting to disclose until you have had a few dates first may be viewed as dishonest by some people. Finally, those who disclose early find comfort in knowing that if the relationship does succeed and move forward, their partner accepts them for who they are, without conditions. Find dating partners here and never feel lonely again!
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Sunday, October 7, 2007
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Dating Tips For HIV-Positive People
It goes without saying that the first attempt at dating after you are diagnosed with AIDS or HIV can be a very stressful and frightening experience. Here are some simple tips that will help make the experience much less difficult.
Some people find it easier at first to only date other AIDS or HIV-infected people. If you opt to start dating only AIDS or HIV-infected people, there are AIDS and HIV-positive dating services on the Internet. Also consider taking personal advertisements in publications targeted to AIDS and HIV-positive people. Important Note! - Dating only other AIDS or HIV-infected people does not mean safer sex, specifically condom use should not be ignored. Even between two AIDS or HIV-positive people, safer sex and condoms are a must with each and every sexual encounter because of the risk of re-infection.
Talk to other people living with AIDS or HIV who have begun to date. Ask them how they disclosed, what the experience was like, and if they have any advice for someone just entering the dating world.
Always be prepared for a reaction after you disclose. It is difficult to predict what that reaction will be, ranging from supportive understanding to rejection and abandonment. There will always be a reaction, so you should be prepared for it.
Before you disclose, assess the relationship and the person you are about to disclose to. What will you get from disclosing? Is the relationship with that person worth risking your confidentiality.
AIDS/ HIV does not define who you are or what type of person you are. AIDS/ HIV does not rob you of your desires, your goals, or your personality. Healthy, rewarding relationships are possible for people living with AIDS/ HIV. Don't compromise your standards or settle for anyone less than you desire for fear of that person being your only option.
Having AIDS/ HIV does not mean you are desperate. You should never lose your self esteem.
If you opt to use online services, use the same precautions anyone using such services would use. Always remember that the first meeting should be in a public place and do not reveal too much personal information too soon. Do not let your guard down until you are certain the person you have met online can be trusted and is who he or she says she is.
Important Note! - Disclosure must occur before your new relationship becomes sexual, whether oral, vaginal, or anal.
Be prepared for letdown, rejection, and feeling discouraged. Having said that, don't be afraid to get your feet wet. If there's nothing ventured, nothing is gained.
Some people find it easier at first to only date other AIDS or HIV-infected people. If you opt to start dating only AIDS or HIV-infected people, there are AIDS and HIV-positive dating services on the Internet. Also consider taking personal advertisements in publications targeted to AIDS and HIV-positive people. Important Note! - Dating only other AIDS or HIV-infected people does not mean safer sex, specifically condom use should not be ignored. Even between two AIDS or HIV-positive people, safer sex and condoms are a must with each and every sexual encounter because of the risk of re-infection.
Talk to other people living with AIDS or HIV who have begun to date. Ask them how they disclosed, what the experience was like, and if they have any advice for someone just entering the dating world.
Always be prepared for a reaction after you disclose. It is difficult to predict what that reaction will be, ranging from supportive understanding to rejection and abandonment. There will always be a reaction, so you should be prepared for it.
Before you disclose, assess the relationship and the person you are about to disclose to. What will you get from disclosing? Is the relationship with that person worth risking your confidentiality.
AIDS/ HIV does not define who you are or what type of person you are. AIDS/ HIV does not rob you of your desires, your goals, or your personality. Healthy, rewarding relationships are possible for people living with AIDS/ HIV. Don't compromise your standards or settle for anyone less than you desire for fear of that person being your only option.
Having AIDS/ HIV does not mean you are desperate. You should never lose your self esteem.
If you opt to use online services, use the same precautions anyone using such services would use. Always remember that the first meeting should be in a public place and do not reveal too much personal information too soon. Do not let your guard down until you are certain the person you have met online can be trusted and is who he or she says she is.
Important Note! - Disclosure must occur before your new relationship becomes sexual, whether oral, vaginal, or anal.
Be prepared for letdown, rejection, and feeling discouraged. Having said that, don't be afraid to get your feet wet. If there's nothing ventured, nothing is gained.
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Positive Singles Dating Forums
Finding love is inherently tough for almost anybody. But for AIDS and HIV positive individuals, simple dating carried potentially disastrous consequences.
Mary was HIV-positive and was plagued with issues of revealing her disease to a prospective partner -- planning for a long-term relationship when she does not know what the next day holds, and keeping a partner safe from acquiring her disease.
In quest of an answer, Mary went online and discovered a dating Web site for people living with HIV and AIDS called Positive Singles. Mary immediately signed up, and after a few months, she had gotten to know two men who were in the "same situation" as her, one from the United Kingdom and the other from South Africa.
The story of Mary is just one that we of Positive Singles hear everyday. Positive Singles is one of the few who dares to concern themselves with the "living" part of living with HIV, and saw the need for an online dating opportunity for AIDS and HIV-positive patients.
In an effort to help an old friend who was in the same situation as Mary, he self-funded his own online dating service. Since its start in 2003, Mary and thousands of other AIDS and HIV-infected individuals were able to find love through his website. Never feel lonely again!
Mary was HIV-positive and was plagued with issues of revealing her disease to a prospective partner -- planning for a long-term relationship when she does not know what the next day holds, and keeping a partner safe from acquiring her disease.
In quest of an answer, Mary went online and discovered a dating Web site for people living with HIV and AIDS called Positive Singles. Mary immediately signed up, and after a few months, she had gotten to know two men who were in the "same situation" as her, one from the United Kingdom and the other from South Africa.
The story of Mary is just one that we of Positive Singles hear everyday. Positive Singles is one of the few who dares to concern themselves with the "living" part of living with HIV, and saw the need for an online dating opportunity for AIDS and HIV-positive patients.
In an effort to help an old friend who was in the same situation as Mary, he self-funded his own online dating service. Since its start in 2003, Mary and thousands of other AIDS and HIV-infected individuals were able to find love through his website. Never feel lonely again!
Monday, September 10, 2007
Lust - An Illusion?
Lust is the product of an illusion. Lust is the intention to possess that which is seen as separate. This separateness is an illusion, for we are all ONE. So if we can see the one-ness beyond the veils of separation, then lust becomes superfluous.
In a state of one-ness, there is no desire to possess something (or someone) outside of us, for everything is already part of us. We already own everything as our creation. In ONE-ness, we will find that the very act of trying to possess something is an assault on that something's energy. Possessing will be replaced by allowing. Instead of lusting after wealth or fame or power or sexual partners, we allow that to be magnetized to us which reflects the vibrational state we are in. If that vibrational state is one of love, joy, and beauty, then there is no limit to what we can manifest. (What will be reflected back to us.) If that vibrational state is one of lust, then we will be forever looking outside of ourselves for fulfillment. We cannot find fulfillment outside of ourselves if we haven't found it within ourselves. Once we realize our own divinity, we are in complete possession of our reality.
Lust is an emotion and is therefore chemical. Every time the emotion of lust is felt lust pheromones are released from the body. These pheromones go out and quest for people or things to possess, and lead you to them. When you are in a chemical state, you need a reaction to your reactions--you need someone or something outside of yourself to complete that chemical circuitry.
In a condition of one-ness, you are operating in an electrical circuitry. The energy comes through you and goes out and electrifies everything without needing a complement to the circuit. It's one way. It is a matter of allowing that electrical energy through you. Lusting jams the energy flow, throwing you into a chemical circuitry.
You never have to feel lonely again! Positive Singles are looking for a relationship with you.
In a state of one-ness, there is no desire to possess something (or someone) outside of us, for everything is already part of us. We already own everything as our creation. In ONE-ness, we will find that the very act of trying to possess something is an assault on that something's energy. Possessing will be replaced by allowing. Instead of lusting after wealth or fame or power or sexual partners, we allow that to be magnetized to us which reflects the vibrational state we are in. If that vibrational state is one of love, joy, and beauty, then there is no limit to what we can manifest. (What will be reflected back to us.) If that vibrational state is one of lust, then we will be forever looking outside of ourselves for fulfillment. We cannot find fulfillment outside of ourselves if we haven't found it within ourselves. Once we realize our own divinity, we are in complete possession of our reality.
Lust is an emotion and is therefore chemical. Every time the emotion of lust is felt lust pheromones are released from the body. These pheromones go out and quest for people or things to possess, and lead you to them. When you are in a chemical state, you need a reaction to your reactions--you need someone or something outside of yourself to complete that chemical circuitry.
In a condition of one-ness, you are operating in an electrical circuitry. The energy comes through you and goes out and electrifies everything without needing a complement to the circuit. It's one way. It is a matter of allowing that electrical energy through you. Lusting jams the energy flow, throwing you into a chemical circuitry.
You never have to feel lonely again! Positive Singles are looking for a relationship with you.
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Being Single With AIDS Is Next To Impossible!
Being single is pretty hard. Being single with AIDS, HIV and other STD's (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) is next to impossible.
While the average single can meet anyone, anywhere, under any circumstances, singles with STDs find it extremely hard to make new contacts not to mention actual dating - for obvious reasons.
A quite effective solution has been found in recent years. Today, finding other singles with the same condition is less complicated and much easier than it used to. A large number of commercial and free AIDS, HIV and STD dating sites offer their matchmaking services.
These Internet sites ease the process of finding members by country, language and by other criteria like age range, education, STD type and more.
People carrying Herpes, HIV, AIDS and other STD's enjoy the full advantages of Internet technology which helps them to break the cycle of loneliness and depression.
PositiveCupid.com is the best, easiest and largest STD dating site in the world! Tens of thousands of people like you have joined to give them a new lease on life. This site allows you to open yourself up to people who have an STD. The fact that you may be living with herpes, HIV/AIDS, Thrush or any other STD is not a negative issue. You just have found a whole community of people just like you. You have an opportunity to move on with your life!
While the average single can meet anyone, anywhere, under any circumstances, singles with STDs find it extremely hard to make new contacts not to mention actual dating - for obvious reasons.
A quite effective solution has been found in recent years. Today, finding other singles with the same condition is less complicated and much easier than it used to. A large number of commercial and free AIDS, HIV and STD dating sites offer their matchmaking services.
These Internet sites ease the process of finding members by country, language and by other criteria like age range, education, STD type and more.
People carrying Herpes, HIV, AIDS and other STD's enjoy the full advantages of Internet technology which helps them to break the cycle of loneliness and depression.
PositiveCupid.com is the best, easiest and largest STD dating site in the world! Tens of thousands of people like you have joined to give them a new lease on life. This site allows you to open yourself up to people who have an STD. The fact that you may be living with herpes, HIV/AIDS, Thrush or any other STD is not a negative issue. You just have found a whole community of people just like you. You have an opportunity to move on with your life!
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Dating AIDS Positive Singles
AIDS
Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome is known as AIDS in the short form. AIDS is actually the collection of certain symptoms and infections in the human organism which permanently leads to the damage of the human immune system. This disorder is in other ways considered as the body's defense system which hampers the normal functioning of the body organs to a great extent. The basic cause of AIDS is the two types of viruses, namely the HIV 1 and the HIV 2. Basically, these two types of viruses are responsible in the performance of the defense mechanism system of the body.
The most common cause of AIDS is considered to be unprotected sex. Sex without taking proper precaution like wearing a condom is very much responsible for AIDS. Generally, AIDS is transmitted through the semen. It is estimated that more than three million people around the world had died because of AIDS. During the prenatal stage, it is also found that the mother will transmit the disease to the fetus before it is born. AIDS is transferred to the blood by means of transfusion of blood into another person's body cell. Furthermore, AIDS can also be caused through the use of injections which are not properly sterilized in the process of taking drugs or blood into the veins.
At the early stage, symptoms of AIDS are not visible. However, at least after a period of 3 to 6 weeks, the symptoms of AIDS can be noticed through certain flu like sickness. Moreover, symptoms like headache, nausea, fever, fatigue and diarrhea are also considered as other AIDS symptoms. But it can be mentioned out here that though these symptoms occur in an AIDS patient, it lasts for only a temporary period of time and after which, it disappears. Sometimes acute AIDS symptoms cannot be considered as the symptoms of AIDS as they may also be found to be very much common to other forms of diseases. Thus, symptoms either mild or severe cannot be considered as solely the symptoms of AIDS as other forms of sickness or diseases also have similar symptoms. However, when the disease reaches its critical stage, the symptoms become very much acute leading to loss of weight, recurrent fever and the occurrence of certain fatal diseases. This disorder destroys the immune system of the body totally. AIDS is a deadly disease which is the result of unprotected sex, hence to prevent it is essential to avoid unprotected sex.
When you have Herpes, HIV/AIDS, or any other STD, it can feel like you are all alone in the world. Positive Singles is dedicated to providing the premier community for anonymous STD dating, friendship and support. Here you don't have to worry about being rejected just because of something beyond your control. You can share your struggle with new friends, partners or potential spouses who are encountering the same fears. Here you will never feel lonely again!
May you soon find your true soul mate,
Janet
Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome is known as AIDS in the short form. AIDS is actually the collection of certain symptoms and infections in the human organism which permanently leads to the damage of the human immune system. This disorder is in other ways considered as the body's defense system which hampers the normal functioning of the body organs to a great extent. The basic cause of AIDS is the two types of viruses, namely the HIV 1 and the HIV 2. Basically, these two types of viruses are responsible in the performance of the defense mechanism system of the body.
The most common cause of AIDS is considered to be unprotected sex. Sex without taking proper precaution like wearing a condom is very much responsible for AIDS. Generally, AIDS is transmitted through the semen. It is estimated that more than three million people around the world had died because of AIDS. During the prenatal stage, it is also found that the mother will transmit the disease to the fetus before it is born. AIDS is transferred to the blood by means of transfusion of blood into another person's body cell. Furthermore, AIDS can also be caused through the use of injections which are not properly sterilized in the process of taking drugs or blood into the veins.
At the early stage, symptoms of AIDS are not visible. However, at least after a period of 3 to 6 weeks, the symptoms of AIDS can be noticed through certain flu like sickness. Moreover, symptoms like headache, nausea, fever, fatigue and diarrhea are also considered as other AIDS symptoms. But it can be mentioned out here that though these symptoms occur in an AIDS patient, it lasts for only a temporary period of time and after which, it disappears. Sometimes acute AIDS symptoms cannot be considered as the symptoms of AIDS as they may also be found to be very much common to other forms of diseases. Thus, symptoms either mild or severe cannot be considered as solely the symptoms of AIDS as other forms of sickness or diseases also have similar symptoms. However, when the disease reaches its critical stage, the symptoms become very much acute leading to loss of weight, recurrent fever and the occurrence of certain fatal diseases. This disorder destroys the immune system of the body totally. AIDS is a deadly disease which is the result of unprotected sex, hence to prevent it is essential to avoid unprotected sex.
When you have Herpes, HIV/AIDS, or any other STD, it can feel like you are all alone in the world. Positive Singles is dedicated to providing the premier community for anonymous STD dating, friendship and support. Here you don't have to worry about being rejected just because of something beyond your control. You can share your struggle with new friends, partners or potential spouses who are encountering the same fears. Here you will never feel lonely again!
May you soon find your true soul mate,
Janet
Friday, July 27, 2007
AIDS HIV and Dating?
AIDS HIV
What is AIDS HIV?
AIDS, or Acquired Immuno Deficiency Syndrome, is connected to HIV (Human Immuno Deficiency Virus). HIV is passed from the first person to another through blood and sexual contact. When HIV/AIDS was initially recognized as a new illness, scientists have learned a lot about how a person becomes infected with HIV. The virus is spread through touch with an infected person's body fluids, especially with blood, semen and vaginal fluids. During the past two decades, about 60 million people all over the world have become infected with HIV. Over than 20 million have died. Over than 90% of these people live in developing countries. There are no special symptoms of HIV infection or AIDS. AIDS includes a variety of viral, bacterial, fungal, and parasitic infections. These infections and cancers may affect the digestive, nervous, respiratory, muscular, circulatory, and lymphatic, as widely as the immune systems of the body. An infection has developed, causing definite types of pneumonia, diarrhea, eye infections or meningitis.
Symptoms for AIDS (HIV):
The subsequent symptoms may be other signs of HIV infection:
Speedy weight loss that is not due to increased physical exercise or dieting.
Chronic pelvic inflammatory illness.
Enlargement or hardening of glands located in the throat, armpit, or groin.
Intense numbness or pain in the hands or feet, the loss of muscle control and reflex, paralysis or loss of muscular strength.
An altered state of external senses, personality change, or mental deterioration.
What Causes Of AIDS (HIV)?
The Human Immuno Deficiency Virus (HIV) has to get into the bloodstream in order to infect humans. This can happen through vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, doing oral sex, sharing needles, breast-feeding from mother to child and with receiving a blood transfusion. Infection of HIV requires these three conditions to be fulfilled:
There has to be exposure to pre-cum, semen, vaginal secretions, blood, or breast milk.
A new cut, open sore, abrasion, etc. has to exist in order to allow the virus to get directly into the bloodstream.
Since the virus does not survive more than a few minutes outside the body, the transmission must be speedy.
Treatment Medication for AIDS (HIV):
Your physician may choose a combination of drugs to fight HIV infection. These drugs are called antiretroviral therapy your doctor hopes to augment the effectiveness of AIDS treatment by attacking HIV at various points. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has approved over 22 drugs for treating AIDS-related conditions, including drugs that fight opportunistic infections and Kaposi's sarcoma.
Tropical Medications:
Astragalus
Astragalus Extract Full Spectrum
Cat's Claw
Astragalus Glycerine Extract
Home Care Suggestions:
Multiple herbs and supplements can be administered.
A high resisting, immune building diet is primary for success in overcoming AIDS and related illnesses.
Employ olive oil and eat fish (salmon or other cold water varieties) for protein.
When you have Herpes, HIV/AIDS, or any other STD, it can feel like you are all alone in the world. Positive Singles is dedicated to providing the premier community for anonymous STD dating, friendship and support. Here you don't have to worry about being rejected just because of something beyond your control. You can share your struggle with new friends, partners or potential spouses who are encountering the same fears. Here you will never feel lonely again!
May you find your soul mate,
Janet
What is AIDS HIV?
AIDS, or Acquired Immuno Deficiency Syndrome, is connected to HIV (Human Immuno Deficiency Virus). HIV is passed from the first person to another through blood and sexual contact. When HIV/AIDS was initially recognized as a new illness, scientists have learned a lot about how a person becomes infected with HIV. The virus is spread through touch with an infected person's body fluids, especially with blood, semen and vaginal fluids. During the past two decades, about 60 million people all over the world have become infected with HIV. Over than 20 million have died. Over than 90% of these people live in developing countries. There are no special symptoms of HIV infection or AIDS. AIDS includes a variety of viral, bacterial, fungal, and parasitic infections. These infections and cancers may affect the digestive, nervous, respiratory, muscular, circulatory, and lymphatic, as widely as the immune systems of the body. An infection has developed, causing definite types of pneumonia, diarrhea, eye infections or meningitis.
Symptoms for AIDS (HIV):
The subsequent symptoms may be other signs of HIV infection:
Speedy weight loss that is not due to increased physical exercise or dieting.
Chronic pelvic inflammatory illness.
Enlargement or hardening of glands located in the throat, armpit, or groin.
Intense numbness or pain in the hands or feet, the loss of muscle control and reflex, paralysis or loss of muscular strength.
An altered state of external senses, personality change, or mental deterioration.
What Causes Of AIDS (HIV)?
The Human Immuno Deficiency Virus (HIV) has to get into the bloodstream in order to infect humans. This can happen through vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, doing oral sex, sharing needles, breast-feeding from mother to child and with receiving a blood transfusion. Infection of HIV requires these three conditions to be fulfilled:
There has to be exposure to pre-cum, semen, vaginal secretions, blood, or breast milk.
A new cut, open sore, abrasion, etc. has to exist in order to allow the virus to get directly into the bloodstream.
Since the virus does not survive more than a few minutes outside the body, the transmission must be speedy.
Treatment Medication for AIDS (HIV):
Your physician may choose a combination of drugs to fight HIV infection. These drugs are called antiretroviral therapy your doctor hopes to augment the effectiveness of AIDS treatment by attacking HIV at various points. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has approved over 22 drugs for treating AIDS-related conditions, including drugs that fight opportunistic infections and Kaposi's sarcoma.
Tropical Medications:
Astragalus
Astragalus Extract Full Spectrum
Cat's Claw
Astragalus Glycerine Extract
Home Care Suggestions:
Multiple herbs and supplements can be administered.
A high resisting, immune building diet is primary for success in overcoming AIDS and related illnesses.
Employ olive oil and eat fish (salmon or other cold water varieties) for protein.
When you have Herpes, HIV/AIDS, or any other STD, it can feel like you are all alone in the world. Positive Singles is dedicated to providing the premier community for anonymous STD dating, friendship and support. Here you don't have to worry about being rejected just because of something beyond your control. You can share your struggle with new friends, partners or potential spouses who are encountering the same fears. Here you will never feel lonely again!
May you find your soul mate,
Janet
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